I remember there used to be a teacher who was fired by the university because he was in a relationship with a student in last year. Is it really inappropriate for a teacher to have relationship with a student? A survey showed that 50% students thought it is acceptable to fall in love with teachers, while only 25% of them insisted on fighting against it.
picture 1 Lu Xun and Xu Guangping
picture 2 Shen Congwen and Zhang Zhaohe
Actually there are many romantic love stories between a teacher and a student. For example, Lu Xun(famous writer in China) and Xu Guangping(see picture 1), Shen Congwen(famous novelist in China) and Zhang Zhaohe(see picture 2). People take delight in talking about it but not treat with contempt.
In my opinion, avoiding teachers falling in love with their students seems to be a quite old-fashioned viewpoint and a little bit unethical. Teachers and students in the university are all adults. Everyone has right to pursue his happiness, especially his love. Free love is one of the most important things in a human being’s life. School forbidding teachers and students’ free love is inhuman. Just think of being restricted by others, it’s quite obvious that we will find it unbearable and we will really suffer a lot if we don’t have freedom, no matter what kind of freedom. Without doubt, it’s a torture, isn’t it? Why the school has the right to treat teachers and students as that way? It’s absurd, I think.
In the eyes of the law, this behavior is illegal. Marriage jurisprudence of China prescribes that love and marriage is personal affair and personal right and freedom. People who meet the terms prescribed by the law can fall in love with anybody you like (of course, the other side must agree), no matter where you are from, what party you are side with. If you love each other, just do it. Nobody can stay out of law, university either.
Several years ago, marriage of university students was also treated as illegal by university. But the law backed up the students, and universities had to cancel the unreasonable regulation. Well today, history repeats itself. University needs to chew upon it.
